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| Welcome To Perm's Advice Column |
| If you have a burning question that you need answered, don't hesitate to e-mail Perm. With his vast knowledge of love and relationships, he can surely answer any question you may have. |
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| I love him, but I don't completely trust him |
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| Poor child. You have opened up your heart and your legs to this man and are now carrying his child (I'll speculate that it's his child). You have trusted your innermost being to him, as well as the creation of one of the most important people in your life - your child. Here's the deal, it's too late for the abortion, unless you have one of those unfortunate "falling down the stairs" incidents, and if you leave him, let's be serious, who's gonna take you. You're damaged goods now, so you would be forced to make it on your own until your kid gets a little older. We know that probably wouldn't happen, so my advice for you is don't say anything to him about not trusting him, marry him (he'll do it now with the kid situation), and then once he's all yours, start being that vicious, life sucking bitch that I know you got in ya, as often as you can, and he'll get so fed up with you that he'll leave you. Then you only have to worry about how to spend that free check that'll come every month until the kid turns 18. That's your best bet at this point. Perm |
| Dear Perm, I am in a relationship and I don't trust my partner. We have been together almost 9 months now, and I am 8 months pregnant. I know that I really didn't take the time to know him and that was my fault. I have fallen in love with him, but I don't trust him completely. I don't know how to let him know that I don't trust him without being rude or mean about it. Can you help. Unsigned |
| When is it "time" |
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| Dear Anne, This kind of lovey dovey bullshit has to be taken in a case by case basis. Usually you know when the time is right, and you shouldn't have it pre-marked on your calendar like this dumb broad I knew in High School. It's always a good idea to live with the person and find out what kind of slob they're going to be cleaning up after for the rest of the marriage. And take your time in deciding, don't jump into marriage unless you're ready. You gotta think is this the guy that I want to have sex with for the rest of my life, or will this guy freak out when I sleep with his best friend? You gotta be able to ask yourself these questions and a shitload more before you decide to in many ways end your life. Perm |
| Dear Perm, How Long should a couple date before marriage Thanks, Anne |
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